Recently I had the privilege of attending my first birth as a doula for my best friend of 15 years. Watching her dance as her contractions ebbed and flowed reminded me just how powerful and strong women are and gave me a new experience of Goddess energy.
When I went to visit her for a postpartum visit, I brought with me a box of snacks and self care goodies that promote postpartum health. After giving her a full body massage and making sure that the new mom was well-fed, I made her this hormonally balancing papaya jam that she was craving. Papayas have always screamed femme sexuality to me, from their tender flesh to their abundant seeds. Needless to say, I’ve been thinking a lot about Femme Magic.
A few days after the birth, Domina Dia contacted me asking me about my experience dominating women and about femme submission. I invited her to join my slavegirl and I in session. When I asked Dia if she would like to cook with me for my blog, I immediately envisioned her delicate latex clad hands caressing and destroying a delicious papaya.
Domina Dia met me at my apartment. I made us tea while we chatted about our experiences with femme-relationships, witchcraft, healing and building femme-community and sisterhood. My slavegirl arrived in her uniform, ponytails tied in red-ribbon bows and mascara. She giggled with excitement upon seeing Domina Dia. I instructed slavegirl to undress and drop to her knees and crawl behind Domina Dia and me into my chamber. Dia sat on an ottoman in a corner observing while I became reacquainted with my slavegirl’s flesh and checked in with her. After introducing Dia to my slavegirl’s delicious masochism, I instructed my slavegirl to assist Dia in lubing up and changing into her latex outfit for the photoshoot.
Dia fondled the papaya tenderly while I took photographs. She cooed to the papaya, “I’m going to slowly remove all of your seeds.” When it was finally time for her to destroy the papaya, she referred to herself as the “Papaya Predator” and eagerly tore into its flesh, taking hearty, animalistic bites with juice running down her chin.